We got up @ 0330 for what?!

•May 30, 2008 • Leave a Comment

This morning, early, while you were still asleep, Kyle C, Jacob P, Kenneth C, and I all rolled out of bed at 330, and were on the road by 4. Our goal was to wade the surf to pick up a few Speckled Trout. We drove through the dark, and got to the beach at exactly the right time (still dark), and found that the wind did not disapate overnight like forecasted and so the surf was still muddy and gross. No trout here. So we simply crossed the road, and hit one of my new favorite fishing spots and waded the bay.

We were in the water when the sun came up. That’s my cathedral. not even going to try to describe. Caught 2 flounder and a redfish, all small, but fun and pretty. Left and went to a new place for breakfast that Don showed me last week.

The picture is Kyle C mid dance move as he got down to the incredibly loud tejano jams blasting from the jukebox at 830 in the AM.

We had an absolute blast, got to do some fishing, see God’s handywork, and become well cultured in tejano music. (and food)

~md

Let me know if you wanna go, we’ll go catch some fish for sure.

footsteps and magnolia blooms

•May 29, 2008 • 1 Comment

The walk around my neighborhood has become quite a ritual for me.  I  have found that the best time to walk is after 10pm.  The first few hundred yards are a cacophony of sound as I make my way to the main road, turn left, and then make my way 60 yards to the northernmost point.  Passing cars, a/c units, arriving air traffic allow me to get into the rhythm without hearing myself.  As soon as i make the turn westward, the noise begins to wane until about 100 yards back from the main thoroughfare I become acutely aware of my own footsteps.  The tempo becomes steady and perfect, and I have an uncontrollable urge to make my steps as silent as possible.  Before long, my feet fall into the stealthy and steady gait, and I begin to take in the silence of the night. 

The smells come next.  Without any visual ques, I have begun to be measure my progress by the scents of the trek.  Every portion of the circuit has its own distinct aroma.  It starts with the first two story house.  It is always perfectly landscaped with a big chimney in front and a flag pole.  The breezy smell of jasmine alerts me to the address, and most nights is discernable one house before and two beyond.  On nights with a westerly wind, I can smell the chlorine of the pool at the back corner of the walk.  The smell always tricks my mind into thinking I smell sunscreen and burning concrete.  Rounding the corner, the pool is quickly lost to the smell of a dingy corner lot that smells like cat.  I hate that spot, but it falls at the perfect spot in the walk to make me return to my original pace, which has slowed by 4 or 5 beats by this point.  There are the smells of pine sap, and pecan trees, and the damp smell under the umbrellas of the two big water oaks.  Then there’s my favorite.  On one stretch, there is a lonely magnolia tree.  Tonight was the first time this year that I could smell it before I could see it.  It has started to bloom, and the sweet, heavy smell of its huge flowers hung thick for a full block.  Tonight, I stopped under the canopy on the corner and took it in for a moment.  This was the sign I had been waiting for.  The clean scent of magnolia has announced the arrival of summer.  Ecclesiastes coined it best.  There’s a time for everything, and for everything a season. 

I hope that in the busy next few days, you get to take a walk.  Notice everything.  Take time to take it all in.  be observant.  Because on my walk, right after the magnolia tree and the big leaning stump, I make a right hand turn that takes me back towards the busy road and to my house.  Back to homework, and all of the crisis that makes up life, dirty dishes, and the schedule of tomorrow.  Go outside, stretch your legs, and let God remind you that for everything there’s a season and a time.  You just might miss it.

 

~md

A mosaic

•May 24, 2008 • Leave a Comment


A mosaic, originally uploaded by mstinkind.

This afternoon, we had a great family time at Mack’s class for “Parent Involvement Day”. We got to make these mosaics with those staples of elementary school life, construction paper, glue, and colored foam. Getting elbow deep in the glue, I learned something. Mosaics are all beautiful, unless you just don’t put pieces in.
I think sometimes in life, we miss out on chances to make memories because we think there’s not time or space for things, and so end up sitting on our butts, watching another hour of tv, instead of taking the chance to make another memory. Mosaics are cool…but you can’t go in with too many expectations, you just have to use the colors and pieces that are on the table and make something beautiful.

Hope ya’ll have a great memorial day weekend!

~md

Graduation Part II

•May 23, 2008 • 1 Comment


The molly gameface, originally uploaded by mstinkind.

Today was Molly’s last day of preschool! Holy cow, not sure where the time has gone, but there it went!

Summer is just a few days away, and I hope you’re ready! I know I am!

~md

Sushi…FSM’s new office pet

•May 20, 2008 • Leave a Comment


Sushi…FSM’s new office pet, originally uploaded by mstinkind.

Katie found us a new FSM mascot this week. Meet Sushi the Beta.
~md

Md is Bald…

•May 20, 2008 • Leave a Comment


Md is Bald…, originally uploaded by mstinkind.

ironically, this photo was taken in a hair salon while waiting for mary to get her haircut. The lady asked (without looking up) “do you need a haircut?”

Katie’s Back!

•May 20, 2008 • Leave a Comment


Katie’s Back!, originally uploaded by mstinkind.

Katie K was gone all last week visiting “the happiest place on earth” with her family. I missed her while she was gone, and we’re VERY glad to have her back!

~md

Still Moving

•May 20, 2008 • Leave a Comment

a group of stars called "The Owl Cluster" taken through a telescope with an exposure time of 137 minutes!!! 

Sunday night after senior celebration (which was amazing…thank you mrs Joy!) I came home and crashed.  I was sick, and I was hungry, and I was just plain wore out.  I changed clothes, and walked outside and sat in the rocking chair out front.  I sat in one place long enough to watch it get darker, see the moon come up from behind the trees, and then something awesome happened.

From my spot in the chair, i was looking at one particular star.  Then i noticed it.  It was moving.  No not like a sattelite or an airplane… I was sitting so still, that i could percieve the movement of the star across the night sky.  I felt rather proud of myself, and having discovered this novelty, i began applying the tactic to other stars.  One star in the north eastern sky i watched for awhile.  I watched it track across holes in the canopy of a big ash tree.  Then, sitting there in my driveway, in the dark, with a crick in my neck, and a big grin on my face, something occurred to me.  I was sitting still, watching the stars move across the sky…marveling at how fast they must move for me to watch them from this great distance…when in fact, it was ME who was moving.  (somewhere around 67874.61 mph…..)

a little mind blowing for a tired guy on sinus meds…but i thought it was kinda cool…

I hope you’re having a FANTASTIC day…have you signed up for summer stuff yet?

~md

5 reasons why Ray Hughes is my hero.

•May 16, 2008 • 2 Comments

look closely ;)

#5 one word…hair
#4 i’ve seen him play shortstop
#3 he lived on an island
#2 two words…hot pastor
#1 he told me how I can post on ye olde blog from my phone (such as I am now). so thank you ray! i’m so glad you’re my friend.

~md (from the phone)

10 YEARS!?!?!?

•May 16, 2008 • 1 Comment

TODAY I have been married to the most amazing woman in the world for 10 years!  Did you catch that?  10 WHOLE YEARS!  STRAIGHT!  Do you realize that I haven’t done ANYTHING for 10 years?!  It’s an amazing concept to me.  There is someone that will put up with my crap for 10 entire years (and if you think that I have something amazing about me that makes me especially fun to be around for extended periods of time, think again)  So today will offically be known as St. Mary-Louise Day from hereforth.  I tell you what, that girl is the sugar in my tea ;)   (sorry Ray).

But for the story of the day~ I’ll give you this.

A few years ago, I was in a conversation with a friend of mine about marriage.  Friend says, “well, I mean, look at you and Mary, you guys have a great marriage (not sure what made them say that one ;) ), what’s the secret to a good marriage?”
I replied, “I don’t know, but I guess I got about 50 years to figure it out.”
It’s such a great picture of God’s faithfulness to us.  The days I’m just a flat out jerk, and display why I should all logical reasoning be a lonely bitter old man that lives on a boat, she ends every phone call with “love you, bye”, and she kisses me every morning on her way out the door.  I tell you what, she’s a saint, and if you know me, you know that anyone who can live with me, has to be.

Have a great day!

~md